Let's address a few issues?

1. How would U feel if a fren says to U "Let's hang out... dun call ur partner to join us pls"? would U feel offended?

To me, being with someone means that he is included in everything I do. Frens have to understand that he is included in the package. Unless he chooses not to be included, it has to be expected that he is, by default.

Isnt that wad being a couple is all about?

2. Happy 23rd (??) birthday Chris ~ I know U are gonna have a wonderful birthday this year :D

3. To a fren who may or may not read my blog,

No one said that loving was easy... Love is hard work. Love is not taking each other for granted. Love is communication.

IMO, wad broke ur relationship was the lack of communication. Both of U took each other for granted. She expected U to be a certain way and I'm sure that u did too. With expectations come disappointments. That's a fact of life.

As time passes, more words go unspoken, more feelings hidden. It is no wonder the gap gets deeper and wider. Constant communication helps to bridge that gap. When one speaks, the other has to listen. Listen with an open heart.

I guess at this point, time has to heal all wounds? Maybe in time, both of U will learn to listen to each others' needs.

With that, I wish U 2 all the best :D